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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why £1.99 Is the Cheapest Investment You’ll Ever Make

 Most people are trapped in the same cycle and don’t even realise it.


They trade time for money.

They work harder.

They stay tired.

And no matter how much effort they put in, they never seem to get ahead.


Here’s the simple truth I had to learn the hard way:


A job pays you money.

Leverage gives you time.


If you only ever exchange hours for income, your earning potential is capped. There are only so many hours in a day. That’s not a motivation issue — it’s a maths problem.


The only way out is leverage.


And the first form of leverage anyone can access is knowledge.


Not expensive courses.

Not flashy gurus.

Not “get rich quick” nonsense.


Real, grounded knowledge that helps you:


  • Stop leaking money
  • Think long-term instead of paycheck-to-paycheck
  • Build wealth even on a low income
  • Understand how alcohol, habits, and emotional spending quietly drain your future



That’s why I wrote my two books:

Sorry Not Sober

and

How to Build Wealth on a Low Income


They’re both priced at £1.99 — not because that’s their value, but because I want them to be accessible to people who actually need them.


Let me be clear:


If you apply even one idea from these books, you’ll get more than £1.99 back.


You’ll save money.

You’ll make better decisions.

You’ll stop repeating the same financial patterns.


That’s leverage.


I won’t keep them at this price forever. As the readership grows, the price will reflect the value inside them — but right now, they’re deliberately low.


If you’ve been waiting for a sign to invest in yourself, this is it.


Not tomorrow.

Not “when things calm down.”

Not when you feel ready.


Today.


Because the people who get ahead aren’t luckier —

they just start earlier.



£1.99 is less than a coffee.

But the thinking inside these books can change how you earn, save, and live for years.


Invest in yourself first. Everything else follows.


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