A Message to Myself: I’m Done with Disrespect

A Message to Myself

(For anyone reading: this is MY truth. MY rage. MY boundary.)

I’m done.

I am so fucking done with being expected to tolerate disrespect from people who have never — not once — shown me the same consideration.
My mother.
My ex.
Anyone who thinks they can treat me like shit and sit at my table anyway.

No more.

I’m done being told “that’s just how they are,” or “you can’t cut off family,” or “you need to be the bigger person.”

Fuck that.

I HAVE been the bigger person.
I HAVE been patient.
I HAVE bent over backwards.
I HAVE tolerated more shit than anyone should have to swallow in an entire lifetime.

And what did I get in return?

Nothing but disrespect.
Nothing but emotional chaos.
Nothing but manipulation, guilt, gaslighting, and complete lack of appreciation.

So here it is.
My truth.
My boundary.
My new rule for life:

If you cannot respect me —
my peace, my boundaries, my space, my existence —
then you cannot be in my life.

No debate.
No guilt.
No second chances.
No more explaining myself to people who don’t even fucking listen.

I am not here to be your emotional punchbag, your scapegoat, your convenience, your toy, your therapist, or your fucking doormat.

I’m here to LIVE.

And if you can’t handle that?

If you can’t treat me with basic human decency?
If you think I should keep tolerating the same bullshit I’ve tolerated for years?
Then do me a favour:

Respectfully —
Fuck. Off.
Love,
Vikki.

This isn’t anger; this is clarity.
This isn’t drama; this is self-respect.
This isn’t “being harsh”; this is choosing peace after a lifetime of noise.

I’m done with disrespectable people.
I’m done with toxic family.
I’m done with narcissistic exes.
I’m done carrying the emotional load of people who should’ve looked after their own sanity decades ago.

This is my line in the sand.
This is my turning point.
This is my freedom.

And if anyone has a problem with that?
They can join the “fuck off” queue.

Because from now on…

Respect is the price of admission.
If you can’t pay it, you’re not coming in.

— Vikki