Why Narcissists Have No Stop Button (and Why They’re Basically Dogs… But Worse)
You know how most people eventually hit a point where they’ve had enough? Enough compliments, enough drama, enough wine, enough TikTok scrolling. Normal humans have a built-in stop button.
Narcissists? Nope. They’re like a malfunctioning vending machine—always flashing “Insert More Attention” no matter how many coins you’ve shoved in.
Here’s why:
- Endless Hunger for Validation
Compliments, attention, even your tears—it’s all fuel. But like fast food, it never fills them up. They want more. Always more. - No Internal Regulator
You and I can feel good after one win. Narcissists are like a balloon with a permanent hole—they need constant topping up or they deflate into a rage puddle. - Addicted to Control
Winning a fight isn’t enough. They want total domination, like a toddler who flips the board game if they’re losing. - Black-and-White Thinking
You’re either worshipping them or you’re dead to them. “Enough” doesn’t exist in their vocabulary. - Fear Behind the Mask
Deep down, they’re terrified of being exposed. So they keep running, chasing attention like a greyhound that never gets the rabbit.
So… Are Narcissists Just Dogs?
Kind of. Except dogs are actually loveable. Narcissists are like dogs with glitches:
- Dogs beg until they’re full. Narcissists never get full.
- Dogs want ear scratches. Narcissists want your soul.
- Dogs give love back. Narcissists give back headaches.
- Dogs sleep eventually. Narcissists keep going until you’re in therapy.
- Dogs can be trained. Narcissists chew through every leash you try to put on them.
See the difference? Dogs are adorable. Narcissists are just… exhausting.
The takeaway: A narcissist’s “stop button” doesn’t exist. They’ll keep pushing, demanding, and draining until you hit your stop button—and walk away.
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