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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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🤖 AI Made Me Do It


So here’s the tea:

I’ve been messing around with artificial intelligence. Not because I know what I’m doing—but because I don’t.


Somehow, in the middle of emotional spirals, caffeine highs, and existential dread, I birthed two books:


• “How to Build Wealth on a Low Income”

• “Sober Not Sorry”



Are they groundbreaking? Maybe.

Are they a bit chaotic? Definitely.

Will they change your life? I can’t guarantee that. But they might make you laugh, cry, or finally stop apologizing for being a legend in progress.


I didn’t write these books to impress anyone. I wrote them because I needed them. And if you’re here, maybe you do too.


So go ahead—read my AI-generated, emotionally-infused, possibly-bullshit books.

They’re cheaper than therapy and sassier than your ex.

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