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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How Narcissists Always Manage to Be the Odd One Out (And Why It’s Hilarious)

You know those people who just have to be the centre of attention, no matter the occasion? Yeah, I’m talking about narcissists — the true masters of turning a good time into a one-person show, whether you like it or not. And let me tell you, they have an uncanny knack for being the odd one out, every single time.


Take this classic example from the Queen’s Jubilee, where thousands of people were coming together, sharing food, drinks, smiles, and good vibes — basically a big, happy, free-for-all celebration. Everyone was pitching in, giving away goodies for free, soaking up the community spirit.


And then there’s her — my narcissistic mum — charging people for outdated ice cream. Yep. Not just charging, but serving half-empty, borderline ancient tubs of ice cream to unsuspecting customers, while the rest of the crowd was basically throwing freebies around like confetti.


I mean, who does that?


Only a narcissist could turn a day of unity and generosity into a mini soap opera about her empire of overpriced freezer snacks. The funniest part? When her ice cream scam was called out, she wasn’t embarrassed or apologetic — oh no, she got angry because how dare anyone ruin her spotlight moment.


This kind of behaviour is pure comedy gold. Narcissists thrive on chaos and control, so being the odd one out is their secret weapon to grab your attention — even if it’s just to be the villain of the story.


Here’s the thing though: while they might think they’re the star, everyone else sees the ridiculousness from a mile away. And honestly? It’s kind of liberating to laugh at their antics and just keep shining your own light.


So next time you spot a narcissist trying to hijack the party with their latest stunt — like charging for expired ice cream at a national celebration — just sit back, sip your free drink, and enjoy the show. Because nothing says “odd one out” like a solo ice cream hustle in a sea of generosity.


Remember, laughter is the best revenge (and the best survival tool).


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