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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Would You Pay £25 for This? Be Honest.

 I know what it’s like to feel stuck — emotionally drained, financially overwhelmed, and just trying to survive as a single parent.


I’ve been there.

I got out of a toxic relationship, raised a child alone, and somehow managed to build savings, stability, and a future I actually wanted.


And I wrote a book about it.


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  • Live on £25K or less
  • Have kids to care for
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This book will show you how to:


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  • Stop the emotional spiral that comes with financial stress
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I’m asking: would you pay £25 for this book?

Would you invest that small amount into a practical guide that could shift how you think, earn, and save — for life?


No fluff. No jargon. Just honest advice that actually works — because I’ve lived it.


If this speaks to you, grab the book now on Amazon. If it doesn’t, I genuinely want to know why not.


Let’s have a real conversation.

Because I know what it’s like to feel powerless — and I also know how to get the power back.


– Vikki


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