When Life Starts Throwing Too Many Bats — Choose Better Ones

I watched a comedian recently who perfectly captured what life feels like: juggling.

At first, you’re given one bat — maybe school or your first job. Then another — a partner. Then a baby. A house. A car. Bills. A toxic ex. A bottle of wine to “cope.” And before you know it, you’re juggling twenty bats with a fake smile, wondering why you feel like collapsing.

Here’s the truth: most of us weren’t taught how to juggle the right things. We were handed chaos and expected to thrive in it.

I dropped the bats. And when I did, I realised something life-changing: it’s not about managing the madness — it’s about choosing what actually builds you up.

That’s why I wrote two books to help you stop surviving and start rising:

• Sober, Not Sorry: The Price of a Bottle Nearly Cost Me Everything
  This isn’t about cutting back or being “good.” It’s about owning your strength, ditching the self-sabotage, and rebuilding your life — sober, proud, and powerful.
• How to Build Wealth on a Low Income
  No fluff. No shame. Just a real-world guide to taking control of your money, even when it feels like you’re starting from nothing. Because you don’t need a big salary to build a big life.

You don’t have to juggle it all. You just need to start juggling the right things.

If you’re a single parent, a survivor, or someone who’s simply had enough of dropping the same old bats — this is your sign.

It’s time to pick up tools that actually work.

Start with these books — and build a life that’s not just bearable, but brilliant.