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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Is “Fast Finance” a Good Catch on my YouTube Channel?

 I’ve been trying to think of a catchy name for my YouTube channel without sounding “braggy” I’m currently using “fast finance” because I offer quick finance tips on budgeting, cashflow and top searches for money and finance. 

I’m trying to help  as many kids, teenagers, students, adults, parents about managing their finances on a daily basis. 

I’ve currently run out of AI video data until the 26th September I can add more but to be brutally honest I am exhausted! So after this date I think im going to focus my next batch of videos on money psychology and fun finance videos for kids to make my “serious” channel more fun to add some more excitement to my life! 

If you have any thoughts, I’d love to hear them. It’s better than speaking to CoPilot all the time! 

I hope your having a nice day xxx 

V xxx 

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