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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Survivors vs Thrivers

 Don’t survive, thrive…

Don’t smoke and give the tax man 50% tax and jeopardise your health, create your own tobacco company and sell to the survivors 

Don’t drink and give the tax man even more tax! If you have to drink create your own vineyard grow your own and sell it to the survivors 

Don’t buy that £5 coffee, make your own coffee and sell to the survivors 

Don’t work a job, become the company owner

Don’t get debt that doesn’t earn you money that’s more than the equity and interest rate 

Don’t earn in a high tax country, earn in a low tax country 

Never avoid tax, be smart about it…


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