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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Give Up Any Bad Habit

 What motivates you? Is drinking a reward? What other reward would motivate you to give up drinking? Fresh skin, thinking clearly, getting ahead of 99% of people, not wasting money, saving more money, going on more holidays, learn new skills and maybe even be successful and start a business that delivers massive value to your customers… 

Lastly think of you alternative motivators to the bad habit, there are a lot more positive benefits to giving up alcohol than drinking. 

Apply this rule to any bad habit… 

Apply your succcess habits in the next 20 hours and see what happens, you’ll be amazed 👌

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