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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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No one gives a shit about you

 It’s a hard one to swallow, but it’s very very true and if you’re reading this, you do actually give a shit. 

Unfortunately, the rest of the world is a very selfish world they only think about themselves and what they can get out of the situation rather than contributing to something bigger and better

This is actually quite a cool conceptBecause you don’t need to impress anyone, you just need to make society a better place and you don’t need to give a shit what anyone else thinks so long as you’re making things better and not hurting people it’s a win-win

This is your life make it fucking amazing and have fun and give a shit! 


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