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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to stop attracting narcissists

 Stand strong, hold your head high and know exactly what you want. 

If people make demands, say no.

If people say your selfish Say I don’t care

If people say you’re a bully, tell them to fuck off

If people say why don’t you answer your phone say I’m busy

People turn up at your door uninvited don’t offer them a Drink And ignore them 

These twats are addicted to you because of your positive vibes and enthusiasm for life because this is all their lacking in their lives. Don’t let them bleed your energy let them wallow in their own mess which they created.

The quickest and easiest way To notice if a new friend is an narcissist is to test their empathy believe it or not one in 10 people is a narcissist so this is a very important strategy to deter them out of your life forever.

I find it easier to think of a narcissist as an adult child that’s been given no discipline because they don’t act like adults they have no boundaries everything’s there’s And they don’t give a shit about anyone else this is a typical feral child example. 

You’re the adult here and it’s up to you which children you want in your life not!!! 

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