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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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 The quickest and easiest way to Spot a narcissist is to test their empathy! 

Just so you know, one out of 10 people are narcissists so it’s vital to find out as quickly as possible For your safety. 

So let’s delve straight into this! 

First of all make plans with this person and before the plans happen change them and see how they react if they have empathy and can understand why you change the plans they are probably not a narcissist but on the other hand if they get upset and angry and have no empathy Then their more likely to Be a narcissist. 

Another way to test them is to be vulnerable and share some upsetting news or lies and see if they react with an empathetic manner. 

Being brought up with a narcissistic mother and a narcissistic boyfriend I know way too well how these people fuck with your lives and you being a kind gentle and honest person don’t need this shit in your life.

You are your own bodyguard protect yourself and surround yourself by nice people because no one else is going to do it for you

All my love v xx 

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