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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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how to recover from narcissistic abuse

 Get yourself some headspace and only talk to people you trust.

Believe it or not, one in 10 people are narcissists So you are going to encounter these people on a daily basis Whether it be at home work or in social situations so it’s more important to understand how they work to keep your head clear and not let anyone in That you don’t trust. 

The best example I can think of is imagine you’re in the jungle and the narcissist is a tiger. They don’t care if you have kids loving husband all they want to do is eat you.

Narcissists are only after three things control power and money now you could be scared but more a fun way to deal with this is to give them what they want but not jeopardising yourself.

I find complimenting them even if it’s not true does pacify them , not in a manipulative behaviour But to keep that anger under control. 

Ideally, when you find out the next person Is a narcissist talk about facts and their life? Never offer any information on yourself as it will be used as ammunition back to you.

You got this you are a very resilient person and I kinda know that 😉

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