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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to have fun whilst everyone is so serious and miserable

 Oh my god there’s some miserable people out there! I find the perfect antidote is to smile and laugh 😜

Surely you don’t have time for these miserable people, I certainly don’t! 

I get life can be hard but we all fail 99% of the time so that 1% has got to be something to smile about heh 🎉

This is your life and you get one chance so make everyday fun, laugh with your friends, go to a comedy club, dance while your cooking, keep your body moving and basically have fun to the fullest. 

Love ya all 

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