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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to deal with a narcissist

 They are trying to control you, so you're basically dealing with a 2 year old that gets what they want if they shout long enough.

Pretend their a 2 year old and don't tolerate that shit.

Don't respond to their threats, demands, they're actually really scared of you, so their way of dealing with you it is to threat you as its the only ammunition they have.

They lack responsibility and need you to take responsibility for their behaviour but don't.

Let them swander in their own mistakes and their world will turn to shit without you and that's why they're treating you like shit is because they want you to save them! you can't save someone that can't save themself.

their desperate individuals and will use every manipulative tactic to destroy you to make them look good.

don't accept this behaviour its completely unacceptable.

Manipulators lie, cheat, are dishonest and require no empathy from you or anyone else.

Demons Vs Angels what the fuck has happened to this un disciplined world!!!

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