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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to deal with bullshitters

 I have a numerous amount of bullshitters and narcissists in my area so overtime I’m learning they mean nothing to me.

I noticed, mainly, they asked bullshit questions, so I either look strangely At them or don’t answer So basically their having a bullshit conversation with themselves. 

In my WhatsApp conversations, I archive all the bullshitters so when I get a text I don’t get a notification and I choose when I look at these messages because I know they’re not important.

The other helpful tip Is to block them on social media so they can’t comment on any of your posts. You know they’re all gonna be negative. 

The truth is the matter is, if you stay professional and discipline yourself to only do things you want to do not what they wanna do. You’ll be a happier person. 

From my understanding bullshitters And narcissist all have something to hide, and they’re just trying to mirror onto you.

You don’t need these people in your life, they’re only using you. 

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