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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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I am literally currently on a professional life coaching course to help me out with this exact same situation so I can help myself and you at the same time. 

I have been questioning their actions for months now trying to work It out but the truth of it is you’ll never work it out unless they tell you their whole story of which I was asking for years but to no avail! 

My relationship was for 24 years but it only turned nasty during covid which I think is quite common.

Anyway, back to the point, I would highly recommend making your story a better one every day and don’t look back. 

You can’t guess their story if they wanna come back and tell it to you they might but highly unlikely so you need to move forward and make your story an amazing one.

What have you dreamed of doing your whole life start dreaming start focusing on your future and make it happy one, and if you meet anyone nice along the way that that’s a bonus

Do what you love from now on with no interruptions…

Be free….

Love as you always have done… 

And be happy… 

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