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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Recover From Narcissistic Abuse

The only way to recover from narcissistic abuse is to understand that they only have 2 emotions fear and anger unlike us that have happiness,  sadness, joy, laughter.

They are uncapable of experiencing happy thoughts and feelings.

You are a happy, funny person and you two will never see the world from the same place as the narcissist will always put a negative spin on everything which is their default fear and anger responses.

Get out there, meet nice people and move on, its the only option.

The more nice people you meet will make you realise you don't need them anymore.


Happy Living xxx

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