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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Live With A Narcissist

We’ve all been there but it is draining so say the least! 

Narcissists are “control freaks” and they will manipulate every person and situation to make them feel in control. 

You have to remind them over and over that they can’t control other people 

They can only control their thoughts and emotions 

This has probably brought on my rebellious attitude towards them haha but in all seriousness they need to just chill and enjoy life like the rest of us. 

Stay sane, have a laugh with the normal people in your life and do it in front of them. 

I can’t promise this is a cure but it might help you out, please comment if it helps, I’d love to see if I’m making a positive impact on the world. 

Big hugs

Vikki xxx

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