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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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how to live a happier healthier life

I basically quit everything negative, negative people, negative situations, negative actions and replace them with positive people, positive situations and positive actions. 

There’s a lot of professional idiots, stupid people and blamers in todays society and they basically need to F Off 

So start today with what ever you need to do

Loose weight

Eat healthier

Exercise

Start your own business 

Buy a failing business that has no website and  digitalise is to make it profitable 

Ditch your partner if their horrible  

Stop speaking to negative people 

And finally make everything positive in your life. 

There’s a lot of people that think paying taxes is negative but actually the more taxes you pay the more your earning so that’s a massive positive 

Earn as much as you like just don’t be childish with your money and spend all of it and live paycheque to paycheque.

Live like a poor person and save the rest for that holiday you might need. 

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