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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Deal With A Narcissist

Narcissists only have 2 emotions fear and anger


they very rarely show joy, happiness, sadness.


Now your armed with this information, you can change the way you talk to them not triggering either of these emotions or try to anyway!


This is why narcissists (could be on the Autism spectrum) get into alcohol, drugs, religions, dangerous sports. its because they are trying to trigger other emotions apart from fear and anger.


These people need professional help but they need to be open to it as you can not force them to do anything they don't want to do.


you could try asking what makes them happy? what makes them sad? what makes them cry? and try to get these emotions practised in a natural way rather than a fake way.


unfortunalty my mother is a narc, my ex is a narc and they basically drain the shit out of you so I try to limit conversation as much as possible to try and keep as sane as possible.


Its important to look after your health too and to protect your brain from all the negativity which will burn you out eventually if your not careful 


You got this xxx

(This is not professional advice, just advice from a observational viewpoint)

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