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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How To Deal With Difficult People

 well im not going to pussy foot around this subject, difficult people are everywhere, my mother is difficult , my ex of 24 years is a difficult  person and these cunts keep turning up!


you aint gotta deal with this or their problems so basically tell them to fuck off, delete them from your contacts and ignore them completely until they go away 100%


now the next step is to avoid them in the future knowing their going to zap you of all your energy so you have to interview them as a kinda testing ground


the big red flags to watch out for is...


They don't listen

They speak over you

They play the blame game

Their loners 

They put you down

They ask for money

They turn up at your house uninvited

They text you 15 times a day with unnessasary information

They always ask what your doing 


BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK


If your job entails one of these cunts or dare I say 2 or more! and you want to keep your job your going to have to big them up and say their amazing to feed their ego and then they will find a new target instead of you


just remember your in charge and these cunts can only enter your life if you give them authority


Go Girl... Or boy...

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