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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...

The Simple Way on How To Make A Narcissist Powerless

Every other person you meet is going to be a narcissist so to make a narcissist powerless is as simple as ignoring them and only being friends with people who have proven to you that they are good

The narcissist is powerless and by giving them attention, they think your giving them power

Their like small children that have lost their dummy and they won’t leave you alone if you keep giving them attention, they always run hot or cold and never calm

Ignore, ignore, ignore and do something amazing with your life right now…

Your in control, not them…

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