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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Let’s face it who’s got time for a narcissist on their life, they literally suck the life out of you until you will become a discarded pile of skin on the floor when their finished with you.

You can think of every excuse under the sun to not leave them but at the end of the day they are killing you if they haven’t already.

Hide all you valuable possessions and either get out or chuck them out, you are better on your own and you know it.

REMEMBER….   ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER than words!!! 

Just do it as Nike sayes!!! 

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