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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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I’ve sat in a room with the most boring people on the planet and they should all fucking die, instead of joining in I get up and create a crazy environment making jokes of people even if they don’t like it because this is how I filter out the bad from the ugly. 

I go grocery shopping and chuck food at my boyfriend seeing if he notices and steel the trolly off  him and telling him off if he even looks at a hot tub because of the price of electricity 

I put signs on the toilet door saying clean your shit cos if you don’t I’ll shove your head down the toilet 

I make life a joke because I have such a serious career that I can’t say fuck off because I deal with their money! 

But if you don’t have money what the funk are you wasting it on! Prostitutes drugs ? The rate of return sucks on them literally 



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