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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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how to get over narcissistic abuse

 I was there so believe me it’s not much fun until you treat it as a bit of fun! 

Looking back everything makes complete sense, I thought I was going mad but everything and I mean everything is a lie and it’s quite rewarding to realise this! 

I also now treat this as a game to spot the narcissist in a relationship and my god they stick out like a sore thumb! 

Before I would question their incentives but now it’s just a big narcissistic game everywhere!!

It’s a great game to play so you don’t get stuck with another one in your next relationship!!!

Just to let you know my mum is a narcissist and my boyfriend was a narcissist and I can’t comprehend the coldness they exert but if you look closer at couples they are literally everywhere

If a narcissist is single you’ll never meet them as no one fucking likes them! I call it CALMA 

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