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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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What to do When you are Being Followed

What to do When you are Being Followed - if their drunk or carry a weapon call the police ASAP


  1. Hide your personal belongings under your coat so their not easy for the perpetrator to take. 
  2. Walk to a busy area or into a shop where there are more people
  3. Slow down and turn around and look at them
  4. Start following them until the shy and walk away
Please note this has worked for me multiple times with successful results. 

Please note this will not work if they are drunk or have a weapon and you need to call the police ASAP

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