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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why is my relationship failing

 After months of researching and finding the answer for myself I think! I have come to the conclusion that it comes down to one simple word “connection” well I will reword that for men & women

Women want connection to have sex

Men want sex to connect 

So let’s give it a try any see how it works because I’m sure your like me and don’t want this relationship to fail only to get into another relationship and have the same problem throughout your life! 


METHOD 1 of Vikki’s plan... I would suggest skin touching would be the first port of call say holding hands, kissing his neck, when hugging put your hands under his clothing to feel his skin. 


I’m hoping this will fuse the connection of my relationship and your relationship to start getting back to the way it was 

Let’s say do it for a few days and PLEASE comment below as I would LOVE to hear your stories on trying this method out... 

any new suggestions I will post on this blog 

Vikki x

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