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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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the best roasted cauliflower recipe

 The best roasted cauliflower recipe has got to be with Parmesan an breadcrumbs, I’ve even converted a cauliflower hater to a cauliflower lover! Try it out

Heat your oven to 220 degrees 

Cut the florets in half, place in a large bowl and drizzle oil over the florets and toss to cover 

Add breadcrumbs and grated parmesan to the bowl and toss to cover. Make sure all sides of the cauliflower are covered.

Oil a baking tray and spread the cauliflower flat side down

Roast for 20 minutes or until tender

Enjoy...

Ingredients

for 6 servings

  • 7 cups cauliflower florets(2 kg)
  • 1 tablespoon olive oil
  • 1 cup breadcrumb(115 g)
  • ½ cup grated parmesan cheese(55 g)


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