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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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The best electric toothbrush 2021

 I have been looking for the best electric toothbrush for a while now  to reduce tea stains and generally make my teeth feel cleaner. I did quite a bit of research and I finally found the oral b genius which was not cheap but at £139 more affordable than a lot of them! 

After I ordered it I had my doubts and regretted spending so much but I have been using if for a month and the app is brilliant it shows you where you have brushed, if your pressing to hard and gives you a percentage of good coverage of which I get 100% most days. 

My teeth look so much cleaner probably because it’s been teaching me how to brush properly which I never really learnt before I invested in this nice bit of kit but I promise you won’t regret investing in this toothbrush and I believe it will save you more in dental bills than it cost. 

If you click on the menu bar at the top right of this page  (3 lines) there is a link directly to Amazon to purchase. This is the best price i have found, some companies are charging over £200. 

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Viks x

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