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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why relationships fail psychology

All relationships start great but there is always a time they feel like their failing and falling apart

The main reason is that you have lost that connection once was sex! You’ve put on weight and basically stoped caring! 

So you can start another relationship and go through the exact same steps or you can learn how do deal with this stage of your relationship. 

Click the refresh button... and do the following 

  1. Give up any bad habits 
  2. Love your partner
  3. Get fit
  4. Start a super healthy diet
  5. Become a business man / woman
  6. Start earning shit loads of money 
  7. Be happy 
  8. Be caring 
  9. Be supporting 
  10. Be you that fell in love at the beginning 

Hope this helps 
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