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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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why do people fall out of love

 Remember when you first met sparks were flying and you couldn’t stay away from each other but then work took over, you have kids and you think you have fallen out of love but the real reason is that you’ve stopped loving each other is because you have let the other tasks take over.

A mother is always giving love to everyone but gets stressed and angry when her partner doesn’t give her love anymore 

This equals divorce 

But on the other hand if you were to just hug her as often as possible and reassure her you love her you can get that spark back

Here’s to a happy marriage 

Vx 


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