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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why are women colder than men

It’s a defence mechanism for our sanity!

Wherever we go there are controlling men in leadership roles and if we show no emotions you have no control over us 

Women in this day and age are taking back control of their lives we can now literally 
  • Have kids
  • Do all chores
  • Hold down a full time job 
  • Be financially independent 
We are cold if there is a threat to the above. 

If your going out with a women that is extremely cold, they have a lot on their plate and see you as a threat, be it not caring, not loving, no emotional support. 

So basically anything that may affect the above! 

If you want your woman to be warmer or even HOT! 
Do the following...

  1. Love her
  2. Care for her
  3. Trust her
  4. Compliment her 
  5. Say she’s amazing haha!!! 
  6. Maybe help with the chores to , don’t ask her just do them...
Let’s stay sane together!!! You might even get a shag hahaha (Not from me!!!)

Vx 

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