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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why are women always cold

 You’ve got to realise in the past women have been raped, controlled, taken the piss out of and so on...

We are viewed as the weaker sex so this is a defence mechanism we use against threats in our every day life!

It’s funny I’ve just realised myself why my partner sees me as cold!!! 🤣

If we see you as a threat we will act cold, this could be anything from putting us down, being aggressive, controlling us... thrust me this is not a loving relationship 

For us women to stop being cold, we need to be able to trust you and know your not a threat and basically have a loving relationship 

It’s really not that hard is it heh! 

Vx 

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