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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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what vulnerability does to your feelings

 If you think vulnerability is bad, it’s actually not!  it’s a great thing...

If your vulnerable you are you, your not using something Else to cover up your feelings. 

Let’s say for example your partner is being mean to you and you’ve had enough, it’s a good thing to say to him I’ve had enough instead turning to the alcohol or drugs to temporarily stop the feeling 

Vulnerability is a powerful coping mechanism and not a weak one, use it to your advantage and you will always be on top of your emotions 

Weak people take drugs & alcohol 

Strong people are vulnerable and know what they want

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