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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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What a mature woman wants in a relationship

We don’t want your money, we just need your love...

After having kids and all of the responsibilities, we just want a man that can give emotional support and the sex will come.

But just a warning, if you don’t give us this emotional support there will be no sex!!!

I think some men think of a women as a slave, we do all the cooking, cleaning and chores then you expect sex! NO!!!

Times have changed and women are career girls, well I am! 
So on top of all the home responsibilities we have a full time career too!!! This is a 24/7 job 

You may think the fairies appear when everything get cleaned and cleared away but that’s not a fairy that’s me! 

After all the turmoil of the day our best wish is to find a surprise home cooked meal and a glass of wine as a treat.
Ps the meal must be ultra healthy

But to answer your question what do nature women want out of a relationship 
  1. Love
  2. Trust
  3. Care
  4. Emotional support 
  5. Best friend 🥰

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