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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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My girlfriend sayes she need space

 If your girlfriend sayes she needs space it depends on your circumstances but in general terms when I say I need space to my boyfriend I really am just missing the connection and love  

Especially when you have kids I feel like I’m giving so much love to my children that loving my boyfriend takes more energy because it leads to sex that it’s to stressful 

All I need is lots of hugs and a warming hand and I honestly think this would get us back to normal 

Kids take loads of time and energy especially if your working full time at the end of the day all is women need is a hug and a helping hand

I know your thinking about sex but if these steps are made it WILL lead to loving sex 

I hope I have helped

Vx

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