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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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i feel like i'm wasting my life

 You get up in the morning and there is nothing to get excited about, change it!!!

Even if everyone in the house is asleep and your waiting for them to wake up, STOP

Make your life

Create your life

No one is going to do it for you!!!

While their sleeping do something amazing and feel proud that whilst every one else was wasting their life you created a new one for you!!!

The most exciting part is don’t tell them...

A few examples to get you off your lazy arse would be...

  • Start a blog and put ads on it and make some extra money (Hard work at first but will pay off in a year or 2) 
  • eBay some old clothes and shoes (I made £2k over a month with our old designer clothes) 
  • Sell popular items on eBay / amazon
  • The list goes on forever but the only thing I would say is do something you enjoy and the money will come 

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