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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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 Women only want one thing from men and that’s love, if they want your money their false.

Let them be independent with their money and be financially free and all you have to do is love them and no this doesn’t mean grabbing their breasts in front of the kids or showing your dick in public although that would be quite funny 😂 

It means holding her hand, hugging her 100 times a day, kissing her neck and occasionally cooking her a surprise meal.

Well that was simple, we’re not as complicated as you think we are!!!

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