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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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cure stress and anxiety

 To cure stress and anxiety you need to learn how to respond to bad situations and my answer to this is always “LOVE”

If your lacking closeness and love to your partner this can cause huge amounts of uncertainty which in turn causes stress and anxiety. 

Stop arguing and give each other the love and kindness you both deserve

Hug whenever you pass each other and always send loving texts to remind them you love them

If this is met with anger and resentment, then they haven’t learnt how to love - read my article on “How to love a woman” 


https://www.howtofeelfuckingamazing.com/2020/09/how-to-love-woman-what-women-really-want.html?m=1


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