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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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Why do I hate myself

 You don’t hate yourself, you hate someone from treating you badly and you are blaming yourself.

You are an amazing person who is being treated not the way you want to be and to turn this self hatred into self love you’ve got to start raising your standards 

Look at the people you are surrounding yourself with, do they treat you the way you want to be treated? !! 

If not, you know the answer - get better friends 

Is your partner treating you right? !! 

If not, you know the answer - ditch his company or stop tolerating his abusive behaviour 

START LOVING YOURSELF TODAY 

You can do it 😘 

Vx 

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