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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...

When is Covid going to end

 Covid is still relatively new to the world so it will get worse before it gets better, social distancing will help reduce the spread but with winter looming and people being inside and closer to each other the cases are going to multiply overnight. 

Schools are going to reopen but this means restaurants will have to reduce their opening time’s to allow for this and keep the r factor down. 

We will need to watch this space to see whether an influx of schools get Covid and are closed again and this mayhem continues.

I reckon it will end early 2022 and that is only if a vaccine is created and is administered to at least 62% of the population worldwide.

I guess we have to embrace this situation and protect ourselves as much as we can until it is finally cured by a vaccine 

Keep safe 

Vx 

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