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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...

how to tap into your subconscious mind

 I am no means an expert but use this Technique to tap into my subconscious mind to help myself during bad times. 

So we have a conscious mind which is everything that is happing around you and your subconscious mind decides whether to accept that information and let it in. 

Conscious mind = the outside worlds beliefs 

Subconscious mind = your beliefs

Tapping into your subconscious with help you massively in life and filter all the bad stuff out. 

Let’s say your getting married and tell people, the ones in happy marriages will be ecstatic and the ones in unhappy marriages will tell you not to do it. 

So the trick here is to listen to your subconscious mind and stay happy and not let other people’s thoughts affect that 

Your subconscious mind is the road to happiness. 


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