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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to swap bad habits for good habits

 It’s easier said than done but I believe in you and you need to believe in yourself too xxx

The next time you reach for a cigarette or a glass of wine think of something good that will give you instant gratification or something that’s makes you feel good. 

What really helps is wearing clothes that makes you feel attractive and sexy, a simple tight T-shirt dress to show off your curves.

You deserve to be happy and treat your body to nice things. 

Spend the money on clothes and nice things not booze or cigarettes. One will make you feel and look good, the other will destroy you!!  

START TODAY 

Vx 

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