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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...

How to give up smoking and drinking

When was the last time you had fun?!!!

Smoking and drinking numbs all positive feelings if you do it on a regular basis. so today is the day you will stop all smoking and drinking and start to have fun😜

START TODAY 
Put aside all the money you spend on these disgusting habits and turn that money into something fun and enjoyable 

You’ll never look back 

Your looks will improve
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Your personality will improve 
Your health will improve 
Your relationships will improve

What you got to loose 
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