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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to deal with someone that puts you down

 The only reason someone will put you down is due to their own insecurities, they are literally taking their feelings out on you . 

No one has  the right to make you feel bad, know your self and be strong. 

Do your own thing and if  they don’t like it tell them to fuck off. 

Feel strong, empowered and surround yourself with more of intelligent people than yourself 

You will always learn from your failures and become stronger 

You got this 

Vx 

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