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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to deal with a man child

 Whether he acts like a 10 year old, 15 year old of a 20 year old the fact here is that he’s still stuck in his immature ways. 

It can be fun but very tiring if your going out with one!!

The trick here is to not treat him like a child and be responsible for your behaviour, don’t argue with him and give him responsibilities he can be accountable for.

Another way is don’t doubt yourself and lower yourself to his childish standards, dress nicely, don’t accept alcoholic of drug behaviour and live life to the fullest, he will join in because he thinks he’s missing out or retaliate but this doesn’t matter what his reaction is the main thing is your having fun. 

Life is only here once spend it with the people that make you feel good and make them feel good too 


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