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Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident

Attachment Weaponisation: The Bond Was Never an Accident I never noticed the closeness being built. I just assumed it was love, and assumed what I owed because of it, without either of us ever saying it out loud. Short version: Trauma bonding is usually described as something that happens to you, almost by accident, through unpredictable reward. A 2025 Cambridge study, interviewing eighteen women with sustained attachment to abusive partners, found something sharper underneath that: the closeness itself is often deliberately constructed early on, specifically so it can be exploited later. Researchers call this attachment weaponisation. The unsettling part is that it isn't always obvious while it's happening. It can feel completely organic, right up until you realise how much invisible obligation got built into it along the way. What is attachment weaponisation? A 2025 study led by researchers at the University of Cambridge, published in the journal Violence Aga...
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How to deal with difficult people

Difficult people are everywhere but you’ve got to remember their difficult because of their own uncertain circumstances.

Keep calm and know who your are and know your values. 

If they carry on trying to involve themselves on your life and make you miserable Just say “ I can’t do this any more, your too intense” and walk away. They’ll try and get you back but just keep calm and delete all correspondence with them . 

I do this quite a lot and it feels fucking Amazing when you don’t have to deal with them ever again. 

Pick people that match your personality and be happy 🥰
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