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Day 4 of 120: Do One Loving Thing for Yourself

Day 4 of 120 — The Christmas Body Countdown 4 of 120 120 Days to Christmas • The Journey Continues Do One Loving Thing for Yourself No conditions. No earning it first. Yesterday was about love before transaction, and how you can spot it in other people. Today, turn that same lens on yourself. Because the same lie shows up here too — the idea that you have to earn love, even your own, before you're allowed to have it. You don't get to love yourself later, once you've earned it. You practise loving yourself now, exactly as you are, and everything else follows. So today isn't about a plan, a workout, or ticking a box. It's one thing, done purely because you deserve it, not because you hit a target first. Not a reward for good behaviour. Just love, first, the same way you're asking it of everyone else. STEP ONE Pick one loving thing Small or big, it doesn't matter. A bath, a w...

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